diff --git a/[refs] b/[refs]
index 3618cd789628..d2c7f03a43b3 100644
--- a/[refs]
+++ b/[refs]
@@ -1,2 +1,2 @@
 ---
-refs/heads/master: a13b8c5f2381495879e6facd3b3ada51c9e68194
+refs/heads/master: 61d96be0f474df354c2ff4a2b2bf410b23a5cd60
diff --git a/trunk/fs/dlm/lowcomms.c b/trunk/fs/dlm/lowcomms.c
index 9e9d2e82f40f..62a8a6ccd992 100644
--- a/trunk/fs/dlm/lowcomms.c
+++ b/trunk/fs/dlm/lowcomms.c
@@ -334,18 +334,8 @@ static void close_connection(struct connection *con, bool and_other)
 		con->rx_page = NULL;
 	}
 
-	/* If we are an 'othercon' then NULL the pointer to us
-	   from the parent and tidy ourself up */
-	if (test_bit(CF_IS_OTHERCON, &con->flags)) {
-		struct connection *parent = __nodeid2con(con->nodeid, 0);
-		parent->othercon = NULL;
-		kmem_cache_free(con_cache, con);
-	}
-	else {
-		/* Parent connections get reused */
-		con->retries = 0;
-		mutex_unlock(&con->sock_mutex);
-	}
+	con->retries = 0;
+	mutex_unlock(&con->sock_mutex);
 }
 
 /* We only send shutdown messages to nodes that are not part of the cluster */
@@ -731,6 +721,8 @@ static int tcp_accept_from_sock(struct connection *con)
 			INIT_WORK(&othercon->swork, process_send_sockets);
 			INIT_WORK(&othercon->rwork, process_recv_sockets);
 			set_bit(CF_IS_OTHERCON, &othercon->flags);
+		}
+		if (!othercon->sock) {
 			newcon->othercon = othercon;
 			othercon->sock = newsock;
 			newsock->sk->sk_user_data = othercon;