RDMA/rxe: Replace rxe_map and rxe_phys_buf by xarray

Replace struct rxe-phys_buf and struct rxe_map by struct xarray
in rxe_verbs.h. This allows using rcu locking on reads for
the memory maps stored in each mr.

This is based off of a sketch of a patch from Jason Gunthorpe in the
link below. Some changes were needed to make this work. It applies
cleanly to the current for-next and passes the pyverbs, perftest
and the same blktests test cases which run today.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230119235936.19728-7-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-rdma/Y3gvZr6%2FNCii9Avy@nvidia.com/
Co-developed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>

drivers/infiniband/sw/rxe/rxe_loc.h

@@ -64,9 +64,9 @@ void rxe_mr_init_dma(int access, struct rxe_mr *mr);
 int rxe_mr_init_user(struct rxe_dev *rxe, u64 start, u64 length, u64 iova,
 		     int access, struct rxe_mr *mr);
 int rxe_mr_init_fast(int max_pages, struct rxe_mr *mr);
-int rxe_flush_pmem_iova(struct rxe_mr *mr, u64 iova, int length);
-int rxe_mr_copy(struct rxe_mr *mr, u64 iova, void *addr, int length,
-		enum rxe_mr_copy_dir dir);
+int rxe_flush_pmem_iova(struct rxe_mr *mr, u64 iova, unsigned int length);
+int rxe_mr_copy(struct rxe_mr *mr, u64 iova, void *addr,
+		unsigned int length, enum rxe_mr_copy_dir dir);
 int copy_data(struct rxe_pd *pd, int access, struct rxe_dma_info *dma,
 	      void *addr, int length, enum rxe_mr_copy_dir dir);
 int rxe_map_mr_sg(struct ib_mr *ibmr, struct scatterlist *sg,